Frequently Asked Questions
(AKA: The Fine Print)
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I am happy to say that my schedule is fairly flexible with sufficient notice, which allows me to meet any day of the week!
As for timing, I am available to meet between the hours of 10am and 11pm, when my energy levels are highest, for dates of three hours or less.
Dinner dates and encounters of four hours or longer may necessarily end closer to midnight at the very latest. (After all, I need my beauty sleep!)
Dates that end after the stated times above incur a $500 late night fee per hour, provided that I am available to make such an exception.
Of course, overnights and multi-day bookings naturally extend beyond the confines of a single calendar day and allow for greater flexibility in timing. I generally drift off to dreamland around 11pm-midnight and will be the most delightful, energetic version of myself if I receive at least 8 hours of sleep.
Wondering when is the right time to reach out and plan our rendezvous? I gladly accept dates made a few days to a few months in advance... There's no such thing as giving too much notice; I appreciate the opportunity to plan ahead! :)
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As I live a very full life, next day bookings are exceedingly rare and same day bookings rarer still. I much prefer to receive severals days or weeks advance notice, but I understand that sometimes that is not possible.
If you would like me to accommodate your schedule on short notice, please note the following:
Bookings made with less than 24 hours notice incur a $500 surcharge.
Bookings made with less than 8 hours notice incur a $1000 surcharge.
If given less than 48 hours notice to meet, a 50% electronic deposit will be required in order to reserve my time.
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Yes to both! I’m based in Washington, DC and while I generally prefer to meet at your local upscale hotel, I am also able to secure us a hotel if you do not have access to one (please note my two hour incall minimum when hosting in DC).
Travel an hour or more from downtown DC will incur an additional fee; the same applies for visits to the suburbs while touring. Please see the pages on Patronage and Travel for details.
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Yes, in order to safeguard my schedule and our time together, a deposit is required for each booking. Our date will only be considered fully confirmed in my calendar once the requisite deposit is received, so it is best to take care of the deposit promptly after agreeing on a date.
If we are meeting in my home city of Washington, DC, a 25% deposit is required for meetings up for 4 hours in duration.
A 50% deposit is necessary for bookings longer than 4 hours duration, bookings made with less than 48 hours' notice, for any travel (mine or ours) outside the DC region, and occasionally for other reasons (at my discretion).
Deposits are non-refundable, except in the extremely rare case that I am unable to make our meeting and we are unable to find a suitable time to reschedule within three months. My complete cancellation and rescheduling policy is below.
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For the deposit made at the time of booking, I offer a number of discreet modes of payment, including electronic credit card payments, cryptocurrency, and of the more old-fashioned variety. I'm happy to work with you to figure out which method will be best.
After the initial deposit, I generally prefer that the remaining balance be paid in cash when we meet. While this structure is necessary for our first date, I am sometimes able to accept discreet online payment in full for future dates.
Please inquire at least three business days in advance of our meeting if you wish to pay more than my requisite deposit electronically.
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My time is extremely valuable to me, just as yours is to you. If we’ve made plans to meet, that means I have declined any number of other engagements to spend time with you, and put down a deposit on our meeting place.
I kindly ask that you please respect the time, preparation, and expense I put into our dates, so I appreciate as much notice as possible if you need to cancel or reschedule.
Cancellation & Rescheduling Policy
If you request to reschedule with 48+ hours notice, in most cases, I will gladly apply your original deposit toward our newly rescheduled date of the same duration or longer, within three months of your original booking date.
For all cancellations, and for rescheduling with less than 48+ hours notice, your original deposit is forfeit as an inconvenience fee. This fee covers my and my assistant’s time and effort in advance of our date, e.g. screening, correspondence, scheduling, accommodations, and other preparations.
For 24-48 hours notice, an inconvenience fee equivalent to 25% of the original booking total is required.
For 6-24 hours notice, an inconvenience fee equivalent to 50% of the original booking total is required.
Within 6 hours or less of our date, including no-showing, an inconvenience fee equivalent to 100% of the original booking total is required.
If greater than the amount of your original deposit, the remaining fee will be charged via discreet online payment and must be paid within 48 hours of our scheduled booking. You will not be able to schedule another meeting with me, and I will not be available to act as a reference on your behalf, if you have an outstanding balance.
If you are running late for our meeting, please understand that I will likely still have to end our rendezvous at the time we originally planned, though I will do my best to be accommodating if my schedule allows.
Please note that I do not offer refunds. Thank you for understanding!
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I kindly ask that my cash fee be presented to me at the very beginning of our date. Please have it prepared in an unsealed envelope. If we meet in a public environment, kindly hand me the envelope inside a greeting card or gift bag.
If I am hosting, please leave the envelope in plain sight and excuse yourself to the bathroom. If you are hosting, please place the envelope on the bathroom counter in advance of my arrival.
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I am happily bisexual/pansexual and delight in the opportunity to spend time with people of any gender! All individual sessions for women and trans clients are offered at a 20% discount—please see the page on Patronage.
I absolutely love sharing myself with couples as well! Please add $500 for a couple’s experience up to four hours, and inquire about longer engagements.
Furthermore, there are few things I would enjoy more in this world than introducing you to one of my stunning, intelligent friends and sharing a delicious ménage-à-trois rendezvous together. Please feel free to inquire during the booking process!
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Absolutely! I would love to be your personal travel companion and enjoy visiting destinations both domestically and abroad. Feel free to propose a trip to me!
I can travel to see you most places in the world with ample notice and a 50% deposit. Please see the Fly-Me-To-You section on my Travel page.
For shorter local travel an hour or more from downtown DC, including Baltimore, my standard rates apply + a small travel fee, as outlined on my Travel page.
Because establishing compatibility (including compatible sleeping styles!) is so important to me, I strongly prefer to sleep in my own hotel room if we're meeting for the first time, so I can wake up refreshed (and ready for morning cuddles) the next day. Please remember to include this in your budgetary planning.
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Absolutely—I’m a natural educator, so it’s one of my greatest passions. In addition to companionship, I offer coaching on touch, consent/boundaries, communication, relationships (monogamous and non-monogamous), and a variety of sexuality and kink subjects. Let me know what interests you and we can find a way to incorporate it into our session.
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Because I respect the privacy of our intimate moments, I do not accept reviews. I kindly ask that you don’t share details of our time together with others, including anywhere online. I am quite firm on this point: expect to be blacklisted if you violate this policy.
If you are absolutely delighted by your experience with me and feel so inclined as to write a positive testimonial for my website, I would be so grateful! Please use polite language and email it to me directly.
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I am always happy to provide an honest reference on your behalf! My usual allowance is two references for each time we meet, within one year of our most recent rendezvous. This is to ensure that other companions receive only the most up-to-date and accurate references, for everyone’s safety.
When you want to list me as a reference for another companion, please contact me first to let me know you'll be doing so and which companion I can expect to hear from, as this protects everyone's privacy. I will not release any information about you until I receive your approval directly. Thank you!
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Good question! I am taking COVID-19 safety quite seriously and hope you are as well.
In brief, I am fully vaccinated and boosted and continue to wear my mask in public indoor settings, avoid large crowds, and socially distance.
I am tested regularly, but if you would like me to specifically arrange a test during your preferred timeframe prior to meeting, please add $100.
You can find my full COVID-19 policy right here. Please note that I require all clients to agree to my policy before meeting.
Thank you for understanding and for helping to keep us and our communities safe!